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THE WISDOM OF NAZARETH: Stories of Catholic Family Life

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 Contents - Sep 2008AD2000 September 2008 - Buy a copy now
Editorial: World Youth Day 2008: the challenge ahead - Michael Gilchrist
WYD08: World Youth Day 2008: what the media missed - Deborah Baker
WYD08: Impressions of youth - Bridget Pati and Berni Sullivan
WYD08: Faith: alive and well! - A pilgrim's progress - Catherine Sheehan
WYD08: A reflection on WYD - Tim Cannon
WYD08: Memories of homestay hosts - Emidio and Phyllis Restall
News: The Church Around the World
WYD08: Theology on Tap: young Catholics' response to relativism - Patrick Langrell
The physical and mental scars of abortion - Charles Francis
Foundations of Faith: Priesthood and the sacraments: Divine help for eternal salvation - Br Barry Coldrey
Liturgy: No smoke without fire: Benedict XVI and true liturgical reform - David Birch
Vatican: Restoration work completed near tomb of St Peter
Letters: World Youth day (letter) - M. & L. MORRISSEY
Letters: Courage of young Jozef Ratzinger (letter) - Frank Bellet
Letters: Invaluable work of Anne Lastman (letter) - Errol Duke
Letters: Moral equivalence (letter) - Leo McManus
Letters: Abortion grief - Anne Lastman
Letters: Buddha in church (letter) - E. Makaus
Letters: Sex abuse apology (letter) - M.J. Gonzalez
Letters: Vatican II (letter) - Frank Mobbs
Poetry: The Sermon at Templestowe - Bruce Dawe
Books: Saving Those Damned Catholics, by Judie Brown - Catherine Sheehan (reviewer)
Books: THE WISDOM OF NAZARETH: Stories of Catholic Family Life - Siobhan Reeves (reviewer)
Books: SAINT BENEDICT'S RULE: A New Translation for today, by Patrick Barry OSB - Michael Daniel (reviewer)
Books: FAITH AND FIDELITY, by Anthony Meredith SJ - Michael Daniel
Books: Books available from AD2000 Books
Reflection: Archbishop Burke of St Louis: the responsibilities of a bishop - Archbishop Raymond Burke

THE WISDOM OF NAZARETH: Stories of Catholic Family Life
Editors Sr Crucis Beards FMDM and Anna Schaefer

(Family Publications, 2008, 205pp, $26.85.
Available from Freedom Publishing)

Encouraging, humorous, pro-life, these beautiful stories are most welcome at a time when family values are often undermined from all sides. Over 30 stories make up this collection initiated by the Centre for Marriage and Family at the Maryvale Institute, taken from the former Catholic publication Nazareth Journal.

Each story gives a unique insight into the lives of ordinary but devout Catholic parents, facing different problems and coming from diverse walks of life. In his address on the Feast of the Holy Family, 30 December 2007, Benedict XVI appealed to Catholic families to 'bear witness before the world of the beauty of human love, of marriage and of the family'.

Professor David Alton (Lord Alton of Liverpool) writes in his foreword of his hope that this book will encourage all who read it to truly live up to Benedict's appeal. No small challenge, but one that each story rises to in its own exceptional way.


Michael O'Brien, internationally acclaimed novelist, artist and former editor of Nazareth Journal, describes marriage in his introduction as 'a vocation that is simultaneously a most fragile and powerful thing, the 'domestic Church', and the foundation of civilization itself'.

These are powerful words, which echo though each story with the difficulties and wonders of marriage being the recurring theme throughout the book. Spouses struggle with stubbornness, unforgiveness, frustration, pride, self-pity, impatience, and physical trials such as abortion, separation, miscarriages, adoption, accidents, financial difficulties, handicapped children, the demands of NFP, illness, sterilisation and poor living conditions. Yet the authors speak humbly of their absolute trust in God, which sees them though unimaginably hard times.

It is all too easy for critics of Catholic family values to disregard books of this type as written by self- righteous disillusioned fanatics not connected to the real world. But the authors of these stories could not be further from that stereotype for they write with particular self-honesty, humility, and humour.

In one particularly fascinating story, 'My Master's Degree', a self- confessed ardent feminist, having discovered another unplanned pregnancy after vowing that she would have no more children until she finished her degree, remarks wryly 'God must have someone employed full-time to follow up on silly definitive statements we humans like to make, just to remind us who is in charge'. Rather than applauding their own merit, each tale refreshingly inspires us to do better in our own lives.

The stories in this publication are categorised into Motherhood, Fatherhood, Marriage, Family Life, Autumn Years, and Eternal Life. The stories in each category speak poignantly of the particular tribulations each grouping experiences.

Those dealing with Motherhood explore universal frustrations such as sleepless nights, unrealised ambitions, self-pity, and foiled desires for further intellectual stimulation, higher rungs on the career ladder and/or worldly status.

There are mothers from all walks of life, including feminists, single parents and converted Jews, who deal with problems ranging from screaming young children, dying grandparents, and adoption to mortgages, run-down houses, and home- schooling. There are painful accounts of miscarriages, where still their great faith helps them as they ask Mary to be the mother of the children they cannot be with.

In spite of mounting personal difficulties, each woman re-affirms that for real success one must put the needs of marriage and family above one's own. Through such sacrifices we come to 'see in all the apparent weaknesses of married life the 'glorious ordinary' of Nazareth'.

The Fatherhood topic details many touching stories, mostly focusing on a father's natural inclination to have responsibility for his family, to know that he can provide for them and take care of them. Yet this noble desire can be easily thwarted in the face of serious illness, near-death accidents, severe financial difficulties and the tendency to pride.

In 'Disaster, Rage, and Repentance', a father tells of his young son leaping blithely from a tree into his father's arms. Is this not the trust we should have in God? Trust is not an acquired virtue but a simple choice. As the author notes 'He [God] is in control no matter what the situation may be ... The crucial question is whether I believe this or not.'


Many of the stories illustrate the powerful effect children have on their parents. Though it can be a daunting task to bring up children in the precious gift of faith, they reward their parents in so many ways, enriching their lives and souls. 'Forgiveness, Stars, and Saint God' is a beautiful story about how children really teach their parents, showing them the priorities in life against the traps of pettiness. It is all too easy for a Catholic parent to step back in the light of modern society and say 'What a great parent I am!' Rather parents should be saying, ' What an amazing child God has given me to make such a parent out of me.'

Alongside the stories on marriage and family life, there are those about inspiring, prayerful grandparents; devotions to the Miraculous Medal and the Rosary; and family members in troubled times, particularly in Germany during World War II. Each story exemplifies the power of prayer and the graces God is willing to give.

The author of 'Snow and Roses' offers this simple set of guidelines which will help every family to live the 'glorious ordinary of Nazareth':

'Endure as best we can life's small annoyances.

Handle problems before they become major issues.

Enjoy life's many blessings to the fullest.

Bring humor and laughter back into our lives.

Love our neighbor as ourselves.

Ask for God's help and never forget the power or prayer.'

Dedicated to 'every Catholic family', this book is one that no Catholic family should be without.

Siobhan Reeves is a young Catholic writer and tertiary student.

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Reprinted from AD2000 Vol 21 No 8 (September 2008), p. 17

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